Do you ever feel hopeless ?
You think like you’re didn’t have any other choice and you can’t solve all your problem ??
You just alone and there is no one to talk or share or asking for help ?
Yes ! We all will feel that one way or another. Mee too, so often to feel like that even I know that it is happen because of my own feeling.
Terkadang rasanya bukan kita yang gak mau curhat sama orang, tapi ada kalanya kita tahu bahwa ketika kita curhat sama someone who we think will help or give us solusions, mereka malah jadi pendengar yang baik dan tidak mampu berbuat apapun untuk memperbaiki situasi yang kita hadapi.
Alhasil, kita jadi malas buat cerita apapun sama orang next time karena selain kata sabar, kita gak mendapatkan bantuan apapun.
(walaupun gak semuanya begitu)
So, when you have a lot of problem and you think that you didn’t have a choice to fix it, I want you to know that I already been on that situasion too before.
I feel so hopeless, I can’t do something and I know that even I tell my family, they will NOT help me out because all I made is money problem.
You know, if we talk about money, we can guess who is our friend or not so fast ??
Nah, ketika kita menghadapi masalah keuangan, rasanya seluruh dunia and seluruh list pertemanan kita auto jadi musuh or orang asing. Apalagi ketika kamu baru nelpon, terus cerita separuh dan orang langsung motong bilang bahwa mereka ‘gak punya uang’, itu rasanya gimana gitu. Akhirnya, kita cari jalan pintas terus cari cara sederhana buat selesaikan masalah.
Hal yang secara umum paling bikin kita hopeless and kehilangan teman itu selalu bermula dari ‘money’. Which mean people can be a stranger and friend can be enemy if we talk about that things. We feel hopeless when we need money the most, then we choose to borrow the money from other place that give us without a lot of question and rejections and here we are ! We fall into a black hole.
We fall and fall when we keep borrow money to close another loan and until the due date come, there is nothing you can do to pay off all your debt. You have nobody to ask, you have no friend and you just all alone and hopeless.
You wanna end your own life but … is that right ??
You feel shy when the debt collector call all your friend, you feel nothing but empty ?
When all you friend know what happen, they didn’t help you out and just laugh behind you. When you come to them, they just say why you didnt asking in the first place ?
They blame you and do nothing to really help you out from all your problem ?
Is happen so often and you can’t breath even for a sec !
Trust me, if that is what really happen in your life right now, don’t lose hope and don’t suicided !
Pray ! All your need to pray and fix your problem one by one, not by creating another problem in the future just to fix ‘today’ problem because if you do that, you’ll drawn far and far and you really can’t find a way out except, you asking for help in legal place, borrow some big money and really end all useless loan for good !
The legal company reject my loan ?
Well, you never know if you never try.
But, when you already try and there is still no help. Asking all your family or sibling. There is always a hope and solution as long as you never feel hopeless.
I will tell a lot about of the circle of loan will kill people in next article but for now, if you really feel useless. You can leave comment below and I will answer all your questions with totally honest.
Am I ever feel hopeless ? YES !
Am I ever feel alone ? YES !
Am I ever been in debt ? YES !
That is why I am telling you right now that what ever happen, never LOSE HOPE because when we feel HOPELESS, everything just END like what they like !
Fight and fix it !
