Sejak kecil memang aku suka bangat pergi sama mamaku. Menjelang kepala 3+, aku hampir tidak pernah keluar bersama dia. Mungkin sunday is a good time for me to spend some time with her.
We going to eat and I drop her into her friend house. Yah, biasa… To play some card and stuff as long as she is happy.
But, I learn one things from her as we going out together.
Memang sih agak kesal kadang karena my mom always forget where her stuff before go. But, we eat together and she always offer to pay the food. I rejected it and be the one who pay because I am not a kid anymore.
Besides, treat mom bring some of happiness for me too.
Terakhir aku keluar sama, ada hal yang sedikit berbeda. Diluar ceritanya yang berulang dan nostalgia masa lalu dirinya yang masih dia ingat. I learn that she still teach me how to be ‘kind’ to each other.
Let see…
After we eat and before I drop her into friend house. She talk a lot about someone who suffer in live. Have 2 grandchild who didn’t have a mother anymore. A husband who send money and 2 other kid who in 4+ and 3+ that didn’t work ?
Yah, anak cowok kawannya ini agak malas bekerja. Tinggal dirumah dan tahunya marah gak jelas. Kayaknya kehidupan mereka susah bangat. Diluar itu, anak – anak tsb juga kelihatan kurus bangat. I know it well because I company her into that house and see what inside and that is true !
Anak – anak itu kurus. Kehidupannya biasa aja. Rumahnya juga sederhana dan tidak berisi banyak. I didn’t know how they spend their day inside the house and that is also the big reason why I should be thankful for what I have right now.
Before I go, mom told me that she want to give some food from my home to them. She forget to bring it so we went to supermarket to buy some snack for the kid. Hmm..
Mom actually kind in this stage.
We do visit them. Mom do some talking and giving the snack for family. What amaze me is she give money to the kid. You know ?
I kinda didn’t believe it but she is kind enough even she didn’t have a lot of money.
Mom feel that they have a unlucky live. Jadi sebelum pergi, mamaku memang kasih uang jajan walaupun sedikit. Aku jadi berpikir bahwa memang kebaikan itu bisa terjadi kapan saja. Mamaku meskipun sudah mulai lupa, dia tidak pernah lupa buat berbuat baik.
Memang nominalnya sedikit. I started to wonder how mom spend day in their home and every time she visit them, she always give the kid money.
Aku gak salahin sih karena memang anak – anak tsb kurus bangat.
I remember bangat ketika anak cowok temannya itu kerumah dan minjam uang sama kami. He is the one who responsible to family but selain tidak bekerja, dia juga jahat bangat sama mamanya. Agak heran melihatnya, kalau jahat gitu apa gak takut ya dikasih Tuhan kesulitan ?
Be good to parent. Because ibadah terbaik itu adalah berbuat baik dimasa tua mereka. Bukan malah marah dan stay home terus berharap dihidupin sama orangtua terus dong ???
I will always remember what mom do. When we have a little, don’t forget to be kind to other people who not really lucky like us.
She may forget many things, but she is really kind.
Kind enough to other and bisa dibayangin gak betapa dia still kind to her child ?
I am not gonna forget this day. Sometimes, after deal with a hard day. Hang out with mom such a good idea. Its simple but meaningful for me.
