Here something I like to share after a long day not write a word in there.
I spend my 3 hour with my old friend and I learn something when she talk a lot
(while I listen with my half opened eyes) and then I realize that what she say make many sense in my life.
I put it into a word and make it be a little motivasion quote.
I am so thankful because when she say a little thing for me, I can make it into a big word for my self. and here let share something there. is that make sense for you too ? 😁
“You deserves to be happy, When you spend your whole time for doing a thing that you’re not proud about, You will ending up be regret. You regret not because you’re doing nothing for your life. You regret because you waste your life time for nothing.”
“We already be a friend for almost 20y’o. and all I know is that you’re the one who have a big selfish and big ambition in life. That is good and that’s the main reason why I love to be your friend, now and forever in my whole life. and I also proud that you moving on so fast. Just not let yourself doing something wrong again (like in past) and make your life mess again twice. Time is cruel DS. They never waiting for you grow up. Time always goes so fastly. Spend it to make yourself happy. Never ever doing a thing that make you suffer and never do something just because you feel pity for something.”
“You deserve to be happy. I won’t like to see you suffer or sad anymore. Why we must pretend that we’re oke all the time just to make someone feel comfort and happy ? Make yourself happy first then you can go and make other people happy too.”
The important thing in that 3 simple quote is that she trying so hard to say that “I deserve to be happy.” Truly, I don’t know what she try to explain, but what she say make many sense.
“We always deserve to be happy.” is not talk about that you’re not happy now. is talk about
“You, right here, right now. do a thing that make you happy, and you never regret it in future.“
And then she make me really think about anything (I waking up having headache) ..
When she ask me a simple questions, and it took me a really hard time to think about the answer (because I’m not having that answer).
She : DS, what is you happiness ?
Me : What do you mean, how about you ?
She : I laugh when I read comic, that is my happiness.
Honestly, I just keep quite after that last word. or I just say “Oh..” and my mind going to explode. happiness is that simple.
And what make we all hard to got our own happiness, is that because we always think about :
- What if
- How if
That 2 kind of word always be a real problem and reason we can’t be happy.
We are too busy to think a lot.
ex : what if they say I am not good enough ?
ex : How if it doesn’t work like what I wish ? And that word will stop yourself to be happy.
Happiness never come itself.
We made it. We create it !
I remember what Miley Cyrus say once,
“Money maybe can make me happy because I can do anything with it. But my money can’t buy me happiness except I create it.”
Happy is just a thing in time and will fade by time,
Happiness is a thing that you made and long last in your life time.
When I compare it with my life story, then I realize one thing that can’t change by anything.
“Money can buy and give me anything that make me happy. But I can’t buy a time with it.”
When I spend a lot of time to make money for myself, I forget that there’s many people around me that will be happy only by my time, not by my money.
So, whatever you’re doing right now.
Why not try to review it and make our time worth on our life ?
You can create a lot of word,
You can read a lot of quote,
You can think a lot of things,
and You can make your life happy with your own things.
Never scare about what people gonna say about you.
Good or bad, by my experience.
People always give their review or comment.
Never scare to think that you’re never find a happiness.
Just create it and do simple thing that can make you smile everyday.
Never be busy just to make other people happy.
You must be happy first.
Never let yourself suffer by past.
Letting go and start your new thing.
Never scare to start everything from the bottom.
As long as you happy.
In the right time,
It would bring you a result.
JUST DO IT !
Happy self, happy life !
