Live our life because there is always many people wanna be in our place.
So often we hear about it but so many of us just dont care about it and think that our life is pretty mess up and wanna to end it.
Why ?
I always hear thing like that everytime my friend broke up with someone, they always feel like their world is falling apart. Like their life was nothing and empty.
Dont forget,
Times always healing, as long as you allow it to heal you.
I rather say not if someone try to argue with me about ‘time healing’ because for me, there is never a real heal except you can let go and walk foward.
If you dare to start some relation, then you must strong enough when the relation must end.
I dont say every relation had to be end, but in case that is happen, are you ready ?
Many people treate their self really less than before just because their relation doesn’t work like what they expected.
And many people throw their life away (suicide) because of that.
At that momment is just sad, because we treat our life less than it should be.
Just because someone not love you again, doesn’t mean end of world or you’re never gonna be loved again.
That is why self respect is important before you start something that will cost you much than it would be.
Let your mind control your feeling and never let your feeling take control on everything, because if that is happen, you never be the normal person and all thing you can do is still hurting yourself.
Trust me, I am doing that in my first experince about love.
So, here I wanna to share with you about my experince,
I know that is first time, but the first time always teach us a lot, right ?
1. You should make everything clear if you really wanna end your relation.
So, in future, there is nothing she / he can do to contact you anymore.
That is always a strategy from ex to keep in contact with you, and trust me, it just hurt you.
(this can be apply if they break with you)
Also, make sure you never come back to them anymore.
2. Pretty sure and think it deep before you end your relation, because based on real experince (without %) the one who end the relation first always regret in the end and always try to making up again. (for the one who wanna be the first to end a relation) and make sure you never end a relation just because you find someone who you think she / he is better.
3. Ask or read many quote or watch many series or movie so your mind will not thinking about it again and again. and never ever stalk your ex no matter how big your curious feeling come, because that is only hurt you (again).
4. Never say time will healing, because that mind just to make yourself feel better and you’ll never do many thing except waiting, and that is not gonna work.
5. Never fall in love as fast as your broke up, because some people think that is just a revenge for a ex and how poor they’re if they know all you think is just revenge and wanna make your ex regret ?
Treat people like you wanna be treated.
6. Break up doesn’t mean end of your world. Its just a beginning and they teach you how to be more strong and smart to choose your own relation in the next.
The heart break is the good lesson to make us be more stronger.
7. Walk and look foward after breaking up, do many thing that you wanna try and do many new things.
Do not let evil in your head control you and let the angel guide you.
Always remember,
You can find your way,
You can survive just like when you’re little.
You can learn from many thing happen around you,
No matter how mess up your’re,
You always can stand up in the end.
Life is worth for living,
Life is not about how many friend you have,
Life is not about how much money you can make or have,
Life is a wonderful thing that God give to us,
Life is never ending adventure and learning,
Life is YOU.
Because YOU are INCREDIABLE.
